Giving and receiving good shame messages at age 7 and 5? Yes! Check it out. I am not sure you readers are going to believe this, …
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Giving and receiving good shame messages at age 7 and 5? Yes! Check it out. I am not sure you readers are going to believe this, …
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My friend, Jen Coursey is a guest blogger today. Jen applies the joy and brain science with her young children and also does …
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From new book: Joy-Filled Parenting with Teens --Here is another tip on changes: helpful words and pleasant faces. Helpful …
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The new book for parents of teens is almost ready, hopefully by the weekend. Here is another excerpt from the book Joy-Filled …
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Big changes occur when we have a teenager. Parenting becomes more difficult. We dread or ignore the changes. Flowing with the …
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In the late 90's I learned about emotional maturity from Dr. Jim Wilder. His organization, Life Model Works, has a detail list of …
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For some months now I’ve been musing on a section from the book Joy Starts Here, by Dr. Wilder, Ed Khouri, Chris Coursey, and …
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I was going through some old files to prepare for a workshop that is coming up and I found an old paper that I had shared a few …
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Recently I was talking to a friend about some struggles she was having with her 10 year old daughter. My friend, who is a …
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Every time I look at my blog stats, it seems that the most hits are on anything to do with instilling maturity in children. This …
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My journey of learning to love unconditionally began in the early 1980’s. Love was not a new concept at that time, but until then …
