Proper consequences are a great teacher for all of us. The definition of consequences is “a logical result.” The definition of punishment is “to cause pain for a crime.” Good parents use consequences not punishment. Yes, consequences bring pain, but when used correctly, the child learns the logical result of what they did and the […]
What is Joy? Part 2
In Part 1 I talked about joy buckets and keeping them full. But what is a joy bucket and why does it matter if it’s full or not? Everyone has a place in their brain that Dr. Jim Wilder has affectionately named the joy bucket. This part of the brain is where joy is built […]
Daily Parenting Tip–Consistency
My son, Jim, suggested I do a daily parenting tip right out of my Handbook to Joy-Filled Parenting. The first tip is about consistency. Children want secure, consistent boundaries One of the most important traits a parent can exhibit when parenting is consistency. If you struggle with consistency and self-control in your own life, it would […]
What Is Joy-Part 1?
Every day I think about joy in one way or another. Knowing how to keep my joy bucket full and how to return to joy when upset has changed my life. Joy means “someone is glad to be with me; I’m the sparkle in someone’s eye.” Thanks to my mentor, Jim Wilder, I understand the […]