Several years ago I began to learn something new about the subject of narcissism from Dr. Jim Wilder of Life Model Works. He informed me that most of us did not know what to do with the emotion of shame. I highly agreed, saw quickly that I was included there, and wanted to know more. […]
Old People Can Grow If They Want To
Did you ever wish that your elderly parents would grow in their Christian faith rather than still behaving mostly as they did when you were in high school? It has been my experience that many of us have that wish. I find myself often telling counselees who struggle with their parents, “They probably won’t ever […]
Advantages of Sharing a Mind
Have you ever felt like you were alone? Have you ever desired to know Jesus better? Do you want to grow character to be like Him? If so, you will find an advantage when knowing and doing what Dr. Jim Wilder calls, “Sharing a mind.” Sharing a mind is part of synchronizing. (If you are […]
Bonkers over The Chosen
If you know me, you might have noticed that I have gone a little “bonkers” over a new series on the life of Jesus. I would like to tell you some of the reasons. This series is like none I have ever seen. And believe me; I have seen most movies, shows, or series. I […]
Love Covers a Multitude of Sins (or Annoyances)
Recently I had a huge aha moment about loving our enemies that is still difficult to put into words. Those kinds of moments usually are. For several years now I’ve been studying and teaching how the brain works in relationships. I’ve gained much understanding of many Bible verses and come to look at life through […]
This is How You Do It: Good Shame Messages
Giving and receiving good shame messages at age 7 and 5? Yes! Check it out. I am not sure you readers are going to believe this, but it’s a testimony to Joy-Filled Parenting. I have to give some background, so bear with me before you get to the stories. Lauren is the mother of two […]